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Mission Fields
 Chile
 Ecuador
 Middle East
 Peru
 Spain

Projects
 Lautaro Center - Chile
 Lautaro Clinic - Chile
 San Luís School - Chile
 Ecuador Church - Ecuador
 Bible Center - Spain





| Spain - Baza | Spain - Monte Olivos Bible Center | Peru - Tacna | Chile |
| Relationship Integrity | Intern Duties | Financial Accountability | Raising Support |
| Short Term Application |


Relationship Integrity on the Field

IAM has developed guidelines for interns as you experience a variety of relationships in country. It is possible that a romantic attraction for a national, a fellow intern or teammate may develop while serving as an intern. Guidelines for conduct follow:

IAM interns are asked to refrain from romantic relationships with nationals, fellow teammates or other interns while serving in country. Why? Several time-tested reasons and cultural issues are explained below:

· Interns are in the host country to focus on the internship. Ministry and cross-cultural learning experiences and a dating relationship can impede the time and energy you should be dedicating to your primary purpose.
· Interns will experience emotional ups and downs (also culture shock) that are accentuated by being in another culture and out of your comfort zone. Adding a dating relationship to this adjustment period usually complicates things rather than making it better.
· There are different norms and rules for dating in different cultures. As a guest in the host country, you may think you understand the norms. You usually do not until you have had time to live and learn within the culture.
· There is always difficulty in communication due the language learning needs of the intern. Even when you understand and speak the language, it takes a long time before you begin to share true heart-to-heart understandings.

IAM expects the intern to be transparent and honest with the Team Leader if an attraction or relationship forms while serving in country. The Team Leader will work with the intern how to wisely handle the relationship.

IAM reserves the right to terminate its relationship with the intern and remove the intern from the field of service if his or her conduct does not meet these outlined expectations.

Recommended Reading:
Bonding Tom and Betty Sue Brewster
Language Learning is Ministry Tom and Betty Sue Brewster
Mere Christianity C.S. Lewis
Out of the Comfort Zone George Verwer